From the corner of my eye, I notice
a baby rattle and a pile of small rubber toy animals that invoke in me a sense
of helplessness; I don’t quite know how I’m supposed to feel. What do you do
when you are in a room with homeless young girls that are current and expectant
mothers as a result of abuse? Girls that are younger than you, that deserve so
much more and should be able to act like the eleven-to-sixteen-year-olds that
they are.
With such heavy thoughts in the
back of my mind, I welcome the girls and prepare to give my regular speech,
thoughtfully written words that I had just hours before said to distant
communities in rural Bolivia. I feel it gnawing at me and find that those same
words don’t fit. I set my cue cards down and look the girls in the eyes.
Looking back at me is a sea of eager eyes, some with a hint of hesitation but
willingness to hear what I have to say. I explain how I came to Bolivia to
teach girls how to make washable menstrual pads to stay in school. Throughout
the workshop, the girls exhibit a selfless desire to continue my work in their
local community for other homeless girls.
The Center for Homeless Teen
Mothers was an unexpected but welcome surprise; however, I will never forget
the heartbreaking sight and how I felt— numb. Numb not in the sense of not
caring, but of feeling so much to the point of needing to desensitize myself in
order to composedly interact with the girls. I couldn’t quite process it all in
the moment, but looking back I chose to ignore the obvious. I chose to let them
feel “normal” despite all that they had gone through, struggles I couldn’t
possibly relate to.
I recall a previous workshop at a
school where a father came with his family. The boys didn’t care, staying true
to societal taboos placed upon menstruation, until I showed them a video about
a girl in India with a similar situation. I could sense a change in their
attitude and epiphany that menstruation is normal. I asked the once-reluctant
father if he wanted to learn how to sew. He simply replied, “Sí.” His soft
response remains powerful as it was a step towards breaking a societal norm.
The same father diligently completed a washable pad for his only daughter.
While I was teaching, there was a girl that casually began to braid my long
hair; her actions exemplify the unified community and sisterhood that I am
fostering.
I have become an advocate for
girl’s education and seek to help girls around the world through servant
leadership and volunteer service. In 2014, I made dresses and washable pads for
young girls in Africa. This year, for my Gold Award project, I am personally
teaching how to make washable pads because it gives girls a more sustainable
means of finishing their education and addresses the worldwide problem of girls
dropping out of school altogether because of a lack of menstrual resources.
Determined to have a greater global impact, I contacted UNICEF who connected me
with Save the Children in rural Bolivia. I have created advocates of change,
young girls and boys that are – after attending my workshops – themselves going
to farther provinces of Bolivia to teach others how to sew washable sanitary
pads.
As a result of all my experiences,
I have learned not to underestimate the impact of one individual. I have
adopted the concept that when helping others – in a small or grand scale – you
have to open yourself up and face a certain level of vulnerability; there is a
mutual bond that forms as you allow yourself to potentially face an emotional
breach – one of joy, sadness or a botched mixture of the two.
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